In person in North York · Online therapy across Ontario
What I help with

Finding your footing again when everything feels heavy and flat

When everything feels heavy, flat, or pointless, it’s not laziness — it’s depletion. We’ll gently rebuild capacity, reconnect you with what matters, and tend to the exhaustion underneath. In person in North York or online across Ontario.

Free & confidential — usually within a few days.
In person · North York Virtual across Ontario
You don’t have to ‘try harder.’ You have to be tended to.
Understanding it

Burnout & depression, up close

Burnout is what happens when chronic stress outpaces your capacity to recover — at work, in caregiving, or in life. It’s more than tiredness: it’s a deep depletion that sleep doesn’t fix, often paired with cynicism, detachment, and the sense that you’re running on empty for everyone but yourself.

Depression can overlap or follow — a flatness or heaviness that drains colour from things you used to enjoy, slows your thinking, and quietly convinces you that this is just how things are now. Neither is a character flaw, and neither means you’re weak.

Both respond to care, not pressure. We don’t push you to ‘snap out of it’ — we gently rebuild capacity, tend to the exhaustion underneath, and help you find your way back to yourself.

Paced & gentleWhen you’re depleted, ‘try harder’ is the last thing you need.
Compassion-focusedWe meet the exhaustion with kindness, not more demands.
Small, real stepsSustainable footing, not a performance of being okay.
How I work

How I work with burnout & depression

Small, sustainable steps back toward yourself — never a to-do list you have to perform.

Protecting rest & capacity

We start by easing the load and protecting recovery — because you can’t heal depletion by depleting yourself further.

Behavioural activation

Gently, in tiny doses, reconnecting with the things that bring meaning and energy — rebuilding momentum without force.

Compassion-focused work

Softening the harsh inner voice that calls you lazy or weak, and learning to treat yourself the way you’d treat someone you love.

Making sense of it

Understanding what drained you — the patterns, pressures, and beliefs underneath — so the exhaustion has somewhere to go.

You might recognize…

What burnout & depression can look like

If you recognize yourself here, that’s reason enough to reach out. You don’t have to wait until you hit bottom.

Burnout often feels like

  • Exhaustion that sleep doesn’t fix
  • Cynicism or detachment from work and people
  • Running on empty for everyone else
  • Dreading things you used to manage easily

Depression can feel like

  • Losing interest in things you used to enjoy
  • Feeling flat, foggy, or far away
  • Low motivation, or everything feeling like too much
  • A heaviness that’s hard to put into words

If you’re having thoughts of harming yourself or not wanting to be here, please reach out right away — call or text 988 (Suicide Crisis Helpline) or 911.

My approach

Care, not pressure

When you’re this depleted, ‘try harder’ is exactly the wrong prescription. We’ll start small — protecting rest, easing the load, and reconnecting you with a few things that matter — and tend to the exhaustion underneath rather than papering over it.

As capacity slowly returns, we make sense of what drained you in the first place, and soften the inner critic that’s been running the show. The goal is sustainable footing and a real sense of yourself — not a convincing performance of being okay.

Compassion-focused and behavioural-activation work — small, sustainable steps back toward yourself.
What to expect

What working together looks like

No pressure, no homework you have to perform — just a gentle path back to capacity.

1

A free 15-min call

Phone or video

A low-key first conversation. Share as much or as little as you have energy for.

2

Easing the load

First sessions

We protect rest, take some pressure off, and find a couple of small footholds.

3

Rebuilding gently

Ongoing

Bit by bit we reconnect you with meaning and energy, and tend to what drained you.

4

Steadier & yourself

As you grow

Capacity returns, the heaviness lifts, and a kinder relationship with yourself takes root.

Is this you?

Who this is for

Adults across Ontario who are depleted, flat, or quietly running on empty.

The burnt-out

For exhaustion that sleep doesn’t fix and a tank that’s been empty too long.

Living with depression

When flatness, heaviness, or fog has settled in and dimmed the colour of things.

The over-givers

Caregivers and high-achievers who pour out for everyone but themselves.

Lost the spark

If you can’t remember the last time you felt genuinely like yourself.

‘I should be fine’

For when life looks okay on paper but feels hollow underneath.

Stuck in survival mode

Running on autopilot, getting through, but not really living.

Common questions

Burnout & depression questions

Burnout is typically tied to chronic stress — often work or caregiving — and tends to ease when the stressor lifts and you recover. Depression is broader, can appear without an obvious external cause, and affects mood, motivation, and enjoyment across all of life. They often overlap, and untreated burnout can slide into depression. In therapy we don’t need a perfect label to start helping.

Yes. I work with clients in person in North York and online by secure video across Ontario. When you’re depleted, being able to attend from home — no commute, no extra effort — is often exactly what makes starting possible.

No. With burnout and depression, the last thing you need is another demand. We go gently and start small — there’s no homework you have to perform, and we protect your rest rather than adding to your load. The pace is yours.

It varies with how depleted you are and what’s driving it. Some people feel meaningful relief within a number of sessions as the load eases; deeper recovery and preventing relapse can take longer. We’ll move at a sustainable pace and check in on what’s helping.

That’s a decision for you and a physician. Therapy and medication aren’t mutually exclusive — many people benefit from both. I can support you whatever you choose, and I’ll never pressure you in either direction.

Sessions with a Registered Psychotherapist may be covered under extended health plans that include psychotherapy. I direct-bill many plans and provide receipts for others. Coverage varies, so confirm with your provider.

If you’re having thoughts of harming yourself or not wanting to be here, please reach out immediately — call or text 988 (Suicide Crisis Helpline), or call 911, or go to your nearest emergency room. Therapy is a support, but in an emergency these services come first.

The first step is just a conversation.

Book a free 15-minute call and we’ll see if we’re a good fit — no pressure, no commitment.

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Free & confidential · phone or video · in person in North York or online across Ontario