Low mood, numbness and heaviness
For grey days, mornings that are hard to start, and losing interest in things you used to enjoy. When everything feels heavy, flat, or far away, it is not laziness or weakness. We work gently on finding your footing again and tending to the heaviness underneath, at a pace that feels manageable, in person in North York or online across Ontario.
Free and confidential. No pressure, no homework you have to perform.
Understanding it
Depression is not laziness or a lack of willpower, it is a real shift in how your mind and body work. It often shows up as a flatness or heaviness that drains the colour from things you used to enjoy, slows your thinking, and quietly convinces you that this is just how things are now.
When you are depleted, "try harder" is the last thing you need. We meet your energy rather than adding to your load.
For some, depression arrives after a clear trigger, a loss, burnout, a hard season; for others it settles in without an obvious cause. Either way, it is not a character flaw, and it is not your fault.
Sustainable footing, not a performance of being okay. We rebuild momentum bit by bit, without force.
Depression responds to care, not pressure. We do not push you to "snap out of it"; we work with you, at your pace.
How we work
Small, sustainable steps back toward yourself, never a to-do list you have to perform.
We start by easing the load and protecting recovery, because you cannot heal depletion by depleting yourself further.
Gently, in tiny doses, reconnecting with the things that bring meaning and energy, rebuilding momentum without force.
Softening the harsh inner voice that calls you lazy or weak, and learning to treat yourself the way you would treat someone you love.
Understanding what drained you, the patterns, pressures, and beliefs underneath, so the exhaustion has somewhere to go.
Wondering if depression therapy is the right fit?
That is exactly what the free 15-minute consultation is for. No pressure, no commitment.
You might recognize this
If you recognize yourself here, that is reason enough to reach out. You do not have to wait until you hit bottom.
Losing interest in things you used to enjoy. Feeling flat, foggy, or far away. Low motivation, or everything feeling like too much. A heaviness that is hard to put into words.
Changes in sleep, appetite, or energy. A harsh inner critic, guilt, or shame. Withdrawing from people you care about. Feeling hopeless about the future.
If you are having thoughts of harming yourself or not wanting to be here, please reach out right away, call or text 988 (Suicide Crisis Helpline) or 911.
Our approach
When you are this depleted, "try harder" is exactly the wrong prescription. We start small, protecting rest, easing the load, and reconnecting you with a few things that matter, and tend to the exhaustion underneath rather than papering over it. As capacity slowly returns, we make sense of what drained you in the first place, and soften the inner critic that has been running the show. The goal is sustainable footing and a real sense of yourself, not a convincing performance of being okay.
What to expect
No pressure, no homework you have to perform, just a gentle path back to capacity.
A low-key first conversation, phone or video. Share as much or as little as you have energy for.
We protect rest, take some pressure off, and find a couple of small footholds in the first sessions.
Bit by bit we work on reconnecting with meaning and energy, tend to what drained you, and practise a kinder relationship with yourself.
Who you would see
Book directly with whoever fits your situation.
Melissa, Sepideh and Katherine see clients in person in North York and online.
Depression and low motivation in children 10+, teens and adults, with practical CBT and ACT tools.
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Low mood, burnout and emotional disconnection in adults.
Accepting new clients this week
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Low mood, numbness and burnout, and the self-criticism that often sits underneath.
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Visit
Our office is at 1100 Sheppard Avenue East, Unit 407, North York, near Leslie and Sheppard. There is free parking on site and it is a short walk from Leslie subway station, with quick access from the DVP and the 401, so it is an easy trip from downtown, midtown, Scarborough, Etobicoke and the east end. Prefer to meet online? We also see clients by secure video across Ontario.
What it costs
Sessions are $170 for 50 minutes with our associate therapists, or $190 with Melissa Huang. Free 15-minute consultation. Direct billing to many extended health insurers (ask which at your consultation).
Taking one small step counts
Free 15-minute consultation · In person in North York or online across Ontario · Direct billing to many insurers
Common questions
A few of the things people ask before booking. Anything else, just ask on your free call.
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Book a free 15-minute call and we will see if we are a good fit, no pressure, no commitment. Phone or video, in person in North York or online across Ontario.