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DBT Dialectical Behaviour Therapy

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) offers concrete, practical skills for riding out intense emotions, staying grounded in moments of distress, and steadying your relationships — built on the balance of acceptance and change.

A method I tailor to you — never one-size-fits-all.
In person · North YorkVirtual across Ontario
Two things can be true: you’re doing your best, and you can build new skills.
In plain language

What DBT is

DBT was developed for people who feel emotions intensely, and its skills have proven helpful far more widely. The ‘dialectical’ at its heart is a both/and: accepting yourself exactly as you are, while also working to build new skills.

Rather than open-ended exploration, DBT is skills-focused and practical. It teaches usable tools across four areas — mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness.

We bring in the skills that fit you — ways to ride out a crisis without making it worse, to understand and shift emotions, and to ask for what you need while keeping relationships and self-respect intact.

Acceptance + changeThe ‘dialectic’: you’re okay, and you can grow.
Concrete skillsPractical tools for real, hard moments.
Four skill areasMindfulness · distress tolerance · emotion regulation · relationships.
In our work together

How I use DBT

What we work on is yours to name. Here’s how DBT tends to show up in our sessions — woven in with whatever else fits you.

Distress tolerance

Skills to get through a crisis moment without making it worse — grounding, self-soothing, riding the wave.

Emotion regulation

Understanding what emotions are doing for you, and tools to turn the intensity up or down.

Mindfulness

Coming back to the present and noticing your experience without being swept away by it.

Interpersonal effectiveness

Asking for what you need and setting boundaries while keeping relationships and self-respect.

Is it a fit?

Where DBT can help

If some of this resonates, DBT may be part of how we work — always at your pace.

Especially helpful when…

  • Emotions that feel huge and hit fast
  • Urges to act in ways you later regret
  • Relationships that feel like a rollercoaster
  • Feeling out of control in distressing moments

It can help you…

  • Ride out intense emotions without harm
  • Steady yourself in a crisis moment
  • Communicate needs and set boundaries
  • Feel more in control of strong feelings

No single method fits everyone — most of our work blends a few, always at your pace.

The first step is just a conversation.

Book a free 15-minute call and we’ll see if we’re a good fit — no pressure, no commitment.

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